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two teen boys   in reply to Inspiration   on

NEED ADVICE IN FIGHTING THE SCHOOL SYSTEM ON MY CHILD’S BEHALF

You can email me at my yahoo email addy..I can get you in touch with a strong mom one who knows the laws..an supports parents who stick up for their kids an who pay attention to them. I think there are alot of parents out there who are more concerned with making money making money ..they say its for a roof over their head but relaly its so they can have extra to spend spend on themselves an their kdis..so they can show off the cool new gagets tehy can get. thos things dont really matter..the cool gagets there will be out dated in a year anyhow sooo what. Many years ago people didnt try to make more so they can spend more..they didnt have cell phones just home phones..they dindt have ipads ect.. they were more about their families an the familys were closer. Poor kids now adays left alone alot more..parents to tired to really take time to look at the kdis while they try to talk about their day at school. or to event ask the kids if they need help with the school work. its a shame it really does make me feel bad that most people are fast food an quick meals ..rather work make money so someone else can cook for you?lol what ever its so sad for the kids now adays alot of them are alone when at home.. an things they do parents dont event know where the kids are ..they are just glad their gone ..not under their feet. Anyhow.. back to what you were saying sorry i got off track hahaha. email me i will give you number to which you can exsplain your situation to her an she will help you brain storm an tell you what she knows about the law an what you shoudl do. ( jennie022003@yahoo.com ) ...have you tried advicts?I went through dure prossess witht he schools to fought for a appropreatate education for my son too.. see the schools will always have more money then us.. they use our own tax dollars against us an everyone esles taxes too. PLus you know who in the end rates the hearing officers right? at the end of the year the STATE sends the school who had gone through due prosess papers to grade the hearing officers..they dont send the parents the same pappers nope. jsut the schools . soo you see if the hearing officers want to keep working ..an not get black balled from the all other schools they better side with the schools 99% of the time..no matters whos right or wrong..if they want to make money for their family. Its no wonder the school can be totaly out of compliance an still win..Its crazy. everything is suppose to be imparcial hearing officer haha yeah right. everything is supose to be fare but its not the state looks out fort the schools.. way way out of their way looks out for them . I could tell you in several ways how this happends..the parents unles you have a special name behind your fmaily you dont really have a chance. the state event with things like writtign the schools up filing complaints with teh state ..make sure you do that get the reports of everything on file make it known if it isnt filed an resported IN writeing then they will say it is as if it never happeend ..not untiol you file complain an put it all in writting. now if you an another perosn say something they might have to go look an check thigns but still they will call school tell then when an when an what time day ect..what their loking for what files ect ..an then the state will go on that exact day they wont jsut pop in on school they dont want to really find anything wrong . everytime i filed complaines i ask state how about you dont call dont tell them what file what day an what time an what you are going to look at ..how about you jsut stop in out of the blue a see if what i said if true..the state said ..becaseu we (the state) have nothing to hide..i said yes maybe you dont but they do ..i told them its like playing hide an go seek covering your eyes an then saying as your walking towards the couch ..saying i am walking to the couch going to look behind the couch for someone..before you get there . that makes NO sense not if you truely beleive their inocent. State is not for the kids they talk trash cant beleive any of it..you have to take care of your kids on yourown./ if you want thme educated exspecially if they have special needs ..then you have to be the one to make sure they get educated . i took mine out of public schools..he wasnt being taught any how..i dont need a baby sitter i wanted him educated.. he is now home schooled with a certified teacher five hours a day one on one at our home..plus has alot of benifites offered to him this way . NO one will care for your child like you will they dont care..its not their kdis an once the year is over they wont have to deal with your child ..not like you he will be in your life an you wil love your child for ever.. to them they are here today gone tomorrow. write me i will hook you up with a mom who i think can help you.. :-) HUG
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 in response to Sandav1...   I havent been helped yet no. I messaged one other girl in here once an she was as lost as i was in the sight unsure of how to use it an how it worked if it worked she didnt know either. the only person who seems to know how it works or had suggestions for me as to look for help was schmidty..an i went where he said an still fumbled around an was unable to find help. I odnt know what i am doing..
dont see numbers to call or ??i am lost.
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 in response to Sandav1...   Good Monring..Nope i havent figured out how to get help yet. You are only the second perosn who has contacted me or messaged me in tring to help in some way. I spoke to one other peson besideds you an schmidty..an she was only answering a message i sent to her. I ask her if she knew how to use this site ..she told me she didnt really know either an that was pretty much the conversation with her. every where i see is for out of state .
I live in erie,or loain county..in Ohio .
I would love to find a place i could afford in firelands school distric so my youngest could finish next yeat out in his same school. There are alot more services in lorain county then in the one the boys an I live right now (erie)county. erie everything is closed an i am on the edge of the county so i cant use lorain county serivrces..an to event try to get to anything erie might offer(food serivrces,clothing ect..)i would have to drive about a hour..an then look at that cost to me in dollars with Gas just to get there an back. eekk so I am stuck. I wish i could find a house to rent in lorain county but in south amherst,oblerin on the edge of so to stay ion firelands schools . We do qualify for a whole bunch of servieces though they have to be ..being offered an they arent . most of erie county things have been closed for years an when the opoen ..they post in newspaper. Why i dont know.If i could aford to have the news paper every day or on weekends i probely wouldnt need help with my other services. becauses then i would have extra money..ro blow right? So i cant aford news paper an they never know or tell you when if they might open the section 8 or public housing you havent a clue when this might happen so apparently onoly the people who can afford to receive newspaper deliverly arent eh ones who know of that servidce opeing na ruish down there an then the doors are closed an filled all spots again. This last two years has been really hard on me quite a struggle. I have probley aged 10 years in just the last two. my oldest son who has the special needs.. i try to help him..he takes alot to put up with him. he does take meds to help him thnk an moods an behaviores.an complusivenes. but the meds help but we go up an down on how we are doing from day to day. The struggles he goes through i go through the same for my younger son. i can feel everything that they do. thats how close i am to them emotionaly. my youngest son can make freinds an is able to socialy fix in most of the time. but my oldest son i wish i could find him a friend. i try to help him but in everything there is a double edged sword. Me being mom i look at both the good an the bad an see which is best for him..aan then thats what we do. I want him to be able to make freinds an have a buddy. he is a nice boy..though he wants a regualr freind . my son has slower proseccing but he can talk write ,read,tie his shoe,but hasnt ever really had such a simple things as a buddy or freind to hang with ..play xbox 360 games with ect. i had thought about big brother an sisiter sorta thing but i was always afraid of when he was younger an wasnt such a good speaker ..he would be mistreated by one of those people if ever with them out of my site. an i know once ONE thing happends you cant ever redo it or take it away . i think a moms responciblity top responciblity is to protect their children until they are grown an are able to do so for themselves. I still thinks moms after that take care of an stand up for an look out for the children oh yes. but when younger or not mature enough or responsible enough the mom should know that an stand up for them at every turn. I am protective yes. of both my boys..but they know what ever i can do for them I will try an i will always be there for them at every turn in their life as long as i am still breathing. and if possible event after that point. i have wanted childrne ever since i was a very young girl. I beleive God gave me them to love na protect..i plan on doing it . Some times when my boys are giving me moods ..an acting up..i shake my head an have to smile an look away..i think I know God gives you nothing more then you can handle some times i just think..Are you sure you gave me the right two?)lol I love them but i am not one who likes to argue or have people with raised voices around me unles we are at a football game watching my youngest .then i might be one right ion there yelling an cheering. I suppose i might need to come in this site a bit more an click on the other peoples pictures an read those . i didndt know until lastnight when schmidty said something about that in his message to me. thanks you . an if you or anyone elses has any other ideas or knows somerthing please share it with me. I am stil looking for a good friend ..for my son . He needs to have someone to run around with or visit with ..play games with,ride bikes what ever. nick has been studing to get his drivers lissens. though hasnt taken his temop test yet. alot of negative thinking people tell me he cant do it an he shouldnt be driving . i dont like being aorund people liek that. I have had that done to him since he was a baby. heck in preschool they didnt event think he should worry about learning to tie his shoe. they said there are velcro shoes now he doesnt need to tie. i said NO he will tie his shoe..velcro shoes are ugly an my son will not be wearing those. by end of that year he was tiing his shoe..no thinks to the school..this was a preschool with therapies ect..an they gave up an didnt want to try to teach him..sad isnt it .i wonder how many other moms listened to the doublt an negativeity an beleived in those people rather then the ablitiyes of their own children? scary to me it is. that same school did that with his writing to spelling of his name. preschool.. didnt want to teach him to write his name said he could now adays sign with a X or a check mark. i said NO he has to write his name. documents ect he has to beable to write his name. i hired another girl an her help me teach him..he still when to his preschool i jsut used them for social but teaching i didnt learn on them for much they wanted to do littel an only wanted to work with easier kids i guess? anythow by end of year he wrote his first middle an last name.he could ties his schoes an everyone esles. they have done this to him ALL his life when he was in public schools. this is why we have homeschooled him. he is taught. i did try a few times to do public schools for him..but it awalys turend out the same they were awful. its like they have an idea an thats it. i could tell soo much more an i could share the names of the schools.too i have no problems with that. they pat themselves on the back for being great schools but see..the test score show high for distric becasues all peicla kids they exempt from the tests so not to count. not resposible for showing progress . If parents of special kids got more involved an not just go to ieps meeting ...but read online info ..watch kids work.work with your kids,.talk to your kids ..give them your time..you will see ..schools most of them not so great. my oldest son is home scholed..i have a certified teacher come in everyday 5 days a week..for 4-5 hours each day One on one. if anyone can help me help him..please let me know..i wouild love to speak with you. Next year should be meds out hopefull to help altiemers,autisium,fragle-x,asburgers..(they all envolve behaviores,retreaving information fromthe brain,social skills,memories)..they will piggy back on eachother on research thats done. one gain in one of theses disablities will have a domino resoult..it will be wonferful an help soo many. in tries now should next year be out? think research right now is for fragel -x.
Jenny
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unsure..........

I dont know how to work this website. i dont know if anyone can see my messages an info i am sharing. i have ask questions an havent received any respondces..does that mean im invisable or on wrong page?or ??cant anyone help me with my issues i am dealing with?or? the more i stop in the site an keep coming back i feel more an more alone an lithere isnt help anywhere. i havent gotten any messages or respondces..i dont know what it is i am suppose to do in this site..where is it we are to talk to people an let them know our information an the problems we are going through an have been dealing with . I know most everyone is hurrtting money wise just like us. just as poor as my boys an i. My special needs son..around the holidays he has behavior issues so i have had my handsfull the last few weeks. . there were thigns on sale thie weekend i wanted to walk through store look with my boys an ..seeing on sale maybe see if i could try to put on layaway something toward chrismas for them. But my oldest son ..had bumped his knee before getting out of car..an was cring an yelling an all upset. he is 18 but he made sure everyone in the parking lot knew he was hurt..an everyone was staring at us. i always try to pretend I dont see or notice them staring ..an i try to jsut carry on. but it is soo embarracing for my younger son an i..to have everyone staring at us as if we are odd. My oldest son who has special needs. made a sceen in the store too once we finaly got inside..he gets upset an is lOUD an upset..an makes sceens. anyhow i couldnt event walk around an look with my boys ..situation was really bad. we had to pretend tings were ok i talk calmly an try to defuse the situation..though best i can do usualy is get out of public..an wait until he calms himself down. i can try but when he is upset best can do is stay near him an wait. I dont know where to apply for help. i need help with rent..there isnt ever anything open for me to be able to apply for help with this..the doors are always closed an arent event able to put application in. i know if someone whould jsut look at my numbers an info an my house hold children ect..i know i would qualify but the doors are claoed an never taking applications . isnt there anyone who can tell me where to go or how i can get help. My youngest son he does well handling the behaviors my older son has with his disablity. it is alot to put up with..i knwo its not his fault but i do the very best i can.i dont thinkanyone else tries harder to ..take good emotional care of their children. could someone message me an let me knwo there are people who can help on this site. when i come ion an look all i see are other moms struggling jsut like me ..worried an stressed out just like me. is this site jsut full of stressed out moms? hahaha
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If anyone can help..i have one speaicla needs son..an one typical son..both teenagers.

I am a single mom I have two sons ,one typical developing an the other a special needs teenage son. We have been poor an struggling for years..but it seems to be getting tighter an tighter an harder on us. I use to think we were poor ..but everything is tighter now then ever has been. we dont have tv turned on..(no cable or direct tv no tv shows at all. We never have had cell phones ..count ever afford to have those. now adays i see poeple saying their poor but yet the whip out a cell phone an text or talk..My mouth drops open an say wow if their poor then what as i ? now adays little kids have phones an tv an so much ..parent have gas to take them to an from places. my boys we try to plan things out before leaving the house to go anywhere so to try to save our gas. or i see if they can grab a ride with someone going our direction. I have good boys..i just wish they could have one nice pressent under the tree for each of them . i hate to event put up the tree this year knwoing i cant afford to get them anything this year. usualy i get them each one thing..but this year.. i jsut dont see how i will be able to . I been helping people clean their homes ect.. but thats going towards rent an utuilites..an gas for vehical. I hear things will get worst before better with econimy ..oh dear.. lets hold on to our seats i think its going to be a rough ride ,.,.eekkk.
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Need Help!! please..if anyone is able to .

Need HIs there any help in erie county for single moms ? I have one special needs son who is 18 an one ..16 year old son..the three of us live in a appartment . We have been tring to over four years now to get on section 8 though its never open an when it does open it post in news paper. well if i could afford the news paper to see this posting i probelty wouldnt be dling so bad in the first place. But we dont buy the news papers ,or do we event have any sorta tv ..we cant afford to apy for thiose things we think of as a luxury. or do any of my boys or i have cell phones. so we dont ever get to know when the section 8 program is open when it does . it clses as quick as it opend too i guess i am told. anyhow .. I really need help i dont have ANY money at all for christmas this year. Usualy i can scrap together enough for them one pressent each..but not this year. i cant event do that for them..please help!

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Christmas for Kids

I am a single mom of two boys. One is special needs ..I usualy struggle an some how cut out theres an make it work. Usualy i can help others out an make alittle money to get boys at least one present they want. This year everyone is hurting money wise an no one is asking for me to help them out .i dont have any money for my boys for christmas this year ..not at all. I was tring to save the last fwew months putting alittle aside here an there. But then a bill comes up an there went my savings for the kids chrsitmas i had put aside. I dont know where to go to ask for help with this. My boys are teens..but as i said the one is special needs i dont want them to feel bad christmas day when i cant put anything under the tree for them. please help..event if its one pressent please. can call me at 440-965-4029 thank you. ..or you may also reach me at email : jennie022003@yahoo.com
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may reach me at:
jennie022003@yahoo.com
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